Be proactively happy.
My former boss used to say: “People can and will pressure you, but only you can stress yourself up.”

When we allow pushy people, bad weather, poor traffic conditions and ungrateful customers to bother us, our stress levels will go up very quickly.

The next time these things happen, just acknowledge the situations but don’t let ourselves be affected. Do what we can, then just smile and walk away.

Take actions to remain happy. Maintain that good feeling by exercising regularly. Find others who are in need and help them.

Deliver our promises so that we can go home without worries. Whatever it is, happiness is in our hands.

Imagine one day you were called in by your superior to take on a new project.He then started telling you what to do first, followed by the second step and continued on for another thirty minutes. Each step was described in details such that you used up the entire note book to capture them.

Now recall a time when another superior ask you to complete a task, but stop short of giving you any instructions. All she said was, “I would love to see this completed. I trust your ability, that’s why we hire you for this work. If you have any problems, please do not hesitate to see me. Otherwise, I’d assume that you are on top of your game.”

Which boss would you want to work for? Can you feel the difference between the two styles? The former expects the job to be done “my way or no way” while the latter trusts your ability to do the job your way.

Salam semua & Selamat Berpuasa!  Yeap, memang dah lama saya tak berkesempatan nak update blog, sebab perlu bagi masa dengan jadual kehidupan yang padat.  Insyaalah saya cuba ubah dan cari baru untuk lebih aktif "blogging".  Belum terlambat rasanya kalau saya kongsikan skrip saya ketika muncul di rancangan Malaysia Hari Ini (MHI) di TV3 pada hari Rabu, Julai 27 lepas dan berbincang mengenai cara menangani puasa pertama si anak kecil...